The way people develop is based on their ability to control the energies that they are required to work with. No one can advance in this work until they have controlled the energies at the previous level. This is important to realise, as this is often the only reason that individuals cannot progress.
When students first come into contact with spirit their world can be changed beyond belief. Things happen around them, which they think they cannot control but in fact they can if they are in touch with their own spirit.
Your spirit controls your life not your guide, nor your helpers and certainly not spirit world. The guide only tries to help your spirit keep the physical you from straying so far from your spirit's chosen way that this lifetime will be wasted
How can I contact my Spirit? What is my Spirit? You can contact your spirit by going quiet, stop rushing hither and thither and listen to what you know, what you are being told about your feelings, about you. People say I know my body better than the doctor, but how do you know? Does your body tell you or is it your spirit that says get this seen to now! or doctor this will not cure the problem I just know that is not the answer. Well it's your Spirit it works hard to try to keep its vehicle, the body, in this world fully functional. It is our physical brain that helps us screw it up.
So your Spirit can control its environment if you can allow it to come to the fore and listen to what is says. Do not let the physical brain panic, as it senses control passing to the unknown that is your Spirit.