If you are reading this we have not managed to put you off - Yet!. So we will continue with the next signpost. It is important to realise that we are in this physical life to learn. We cannot do that properly if we try to get the answer to every problem from spirit. They cannot live our lives for us. The more enlightened beings will not tell you if you should get up today or not. Aunt flossie might but really you have Personal Responsibility for what you do, for what you say and what you think. Saying spirit told me to do something is not acceptable. What you do is your responsibility.
Do not drift off into a world where the physical experiences pass you by. By that I mean you can easily enter a state where your mind is so far enmeshed in spirit world your physical body starts to die. This happened to me nothing got through to me and my body started to feel lethargic and it seemed as if it would soon slip off like some bedraggled coat. It took an shocking event at work to bring me back so I could deal with my physical responsibilities properly
The only thing one should be dogmatic about is not being dogmatic. The best way to ensure you reach your full potential is to be flexible. Being dogmatic tends to stifle new ideas , new thoughts and your own progress.